Things that make you go hmmm

I have a friend who is getting divorced for the same reason I am. Yes, it's true, her husband cheated on her, too. What I don't understand, besides the obvious - why do husbands cheat, is why she is so nice to him. I can't figure out if I am reading too much into this, if I am mean, or if she just isn't ready to let go yet. Tonight she calls me by accident, she meant to call our friend Lori. She wants to ask Lori to watch her kids for a little while because she doesn't want to leave her husband alone. I replied with "WHAT??!!" So she proceeds to tell me that the woman her husband cheated with is in the back of a police car headed to jail. I ask if her husband is OK. She said yes but no. Then she explains that the woman's husband cut himself, pretended that she attacked him and called the police. Her husband is so distraught that she is cancelling her plans, going home to take the kids to her friends, and is then going to comfort her husband because she doesn't think he should be alone. This is a true story. You might have to go back and read it again.

Getting Dumped

How's this for a sad story . . . the realtor dumped me. I am too hard to work with and so is my lawyer. So she dumped me. Luckily, I didn't want her in the first place and she is actually hard to work with so I guess it's all OK. Seriously, though, who gets dumped by the realtor??

A New Start

So, things are moving along, mediation in June, trial in July if mediation doesn't work. That means that I need to find us a new place to live. Yesterday I spent the morning on the hunt for a new home. I found two that I absolutely love. I really can't wait to start fresh and have a place that doesn't have any bad memories and where the kids and I can make new ones and have only happy memories of. All of us have moved on and adjusted much better than I ever imagined. I can't wait to start packing!

Rock of Love II

Yes, it's true, I am addicted Rock of Love II on VH1. Brett Michaels is just beautiful and I do still love him all these years later. If I looked like those girls and could act like them I would so try out for Rock of Love III, because you know there will be one! I am impressed with him for choosing Ambre, I totally thought Daisy was going to be it for him. I know this is off my usual topic, but I just love that show! It keeps me from thinking and that's what makes reality TV so wonderful! I am dying to see the reunion show this Sunday, there is going to be a huge fight! Oh Brett, if only you were looking for me . . .

The fun times continue . . .

The trial has been postponed until the end of July. The mediation will be in the beginning of June with depositions to follow if we aren't able to settle. I thought Jason and I had come to some agreements yesterday without anyone in the middle. We were going to switch drop off and pick up to make it easier on the boys. He decided to change it back so an argument followed and he called me an a****** in front of Nicholas. Poor Nicholas just kept looking back and forth between the two of us and then told me to just do what daddy said and ran after him. He's such a great dad. Nicholas was fine when I called there to say goodnight but Christopher was still awake at 8:00. Monday we go to see the parent coordinator, that's going to be lots of fun!

Seriously???

Last weekend, it wasn't possible for Jason to take Nicholas to his last basketball game and receive his trophy because they were going to Disney for the day. They really went to the movies and left Christopher with his unfit mother. Tonight Jason was at the skating rink with Jessica and Isabella for Isabella's figure skating lesson. Nicholas wanted to know why daddy was there. Oh how I wish I could honestly answer that question.